I have decided to break up with my girlfriend.
She is too needy and desperate. She loves me a lot. She thinks about marriage and stuff. I'm scared.
I lost the feeling of love with her, but the problem is she said she will be shattered if I break up with her.
I know she is speaking truth , she will be very sad and it will break her badly emotionally.
I don't know what to do.
I'm feeling guilty, anxious and feeling I'm a terrible person to break her heart.
What should I do? Should I be friends with her after break up?
- You shouldn't be friends with her after break up, it will stop you from moving on.Vote A
- You should be friends with her after break up, it will help her cope up with the pain of break up.Vote B
- Others (I want to give my opinion)Vote C
Most Helpful Girl
Don't be friends at first, for however long it takes her to move on. 3 months, 6 months, a year, more if needed. Once she moved on and knows she can be happy without you, maybe has a new relationship she's happy in, that's when you can try to actually be friends.
Anything else is torture. You can't stay friends with her as long as she has feelings for you. That's gonna hurt her so much and she won't get over you and you'll just drag the process out and ruin any chance of actual friendship later on.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Guy
you shouldn't be friends with her simply because she will be "shattered" by the break up. if that is the primary reason for being friends with her i think this would have a negative impact on her ability to move on
be friends with an ex if there is a platonic friendship involved in your relationship.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE