We've been broken up for more than 2 months, and she tells me we'll never get back together but she still texts me almost everyday?
Even if it's something stupid like "oh I found this at my house" or something more like "just wanted to say I hope you're having a good day" type of messages.
I don't get why she does this? I already told her I can't be just friends with her, and I know she's been hanging out with another guy too even though she says it's nothing serious, but then she still wants to contact me everyday?
It was a 6 year relationship (I'm 23 and she's 25 now) and she knows I want to get back together, and she says no, but won't stop doing this. Last night she even sent me a text asking if I'd get mad if she brought him somewhere where I was going to be. I told her bring him and I won't go, and now she's not bringing him. If we're never going to get back together why would she even bother to ask me such a stupid thing?
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Lay down the law!
Grow a pair!
Tell her flat out, "You're confusing me, you say you don't want to get back together but you're texting me this kind of sh*t and are worried about how I feel? I don't want to be friends, I want to be your boyfriend and since you and I don't want the same thing...you need to leave me alone, unless the whole reason you've been doing this is because you secretly want back together. Because...that's what it looks like to me. So, make up your mind."
Be upfront. Hell, copy that verbatim if you want.0