My boyfriend of a year and half broke up with me he explained the reason he broke up with me was he felt he gave his all and I didn't. I tried to reassure him that I would change and work on that he wouldn't budge. I decided to contact him 3 months after he broke up with me. I asked him to meet me for a drink. So he accepted and we had a great time. I am super confused due to the fact that he was flirting with me all night and asked me if I can really do the friend thing. I answered yes but that I still loved him but I would rather have him in my life as a friend then nothing at all. He gave me a big hug and said that meant a lot to him then he started to ramble on about how I wasn't giving my all and he was.. I cut him short and said it was okay. I was so tired of hearing that broken record. Why was he flirting with me and saying I am his type after he broke up with me? Then to top the night he walked me to my car and said he had a great time and kissed me on the cheek and said don't be a stranger after I'm the only one trying to be in contact! Then after that wonderful night he did a 360 back to being cold. Totally don't get it ! In need of feedback guys...
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I'm not 100% sure but it sounds like he's playing you abit. Breaking up with someone for not putting 100% into the relationship and then not giving you another chance if you say you'll change sounds like he might have just wanted to break up with you anyway.
Maybe he isn't too sure of his feelings or maybe he's just trying to make you crave him more.
Either way you can't have him in your life if you still love him and he doesn't love you. You need to get over him in order to be friends otherwise your only punishing yourself.0