I don't know what to do next. I feel weird about this.
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Why wouldn’t you lol? I ask my girl for nudes when I’m horny we don’t live together but none the less she does it so I don’t see your deal you sound distant if anything
I am more than 4 years right now with my girlfriend, and i am sad to hear there's another young couple that were the same with us on almost same date, but breaks up.
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You shouldn't feel weird, not for breaking up with him. He has issues. Distant with you before accusing you of not loving him because you won't do what he wants. Maybe you could've asked why he's been distant, but you said you've had issues in the past, so not sure how much that question would've helped you anyway.
That's tough. Did you want to break it off? If you did then the point probably got across that it's over. I don't know how close you guys were, but since your feeling distant maybe you guys are not used to the fact that maybe you won't see each other or hang out as much every now and then.
From my view, and a logical POV I guess, I think that was a weird way to say "you don't love me..."over nudes lol
Well, if you tried to talk to him and tell him you feel distant and he didn't say anything or help in anyway, then it's probably for the best.
The "NUDES" sounded like a spark that got you thinking about everything thats wrong with the relationship.
But that's what i think, what do i know.
Just take a break for a bit. Limit contact for a few days. You both need a reboot and time to reflect. If you feel the same after that, then make a break up official.
You did well. He can't force you to do it and you're not his sex slave. Maybe that will make him think, and if not, well you're free to find someone more respectful.
Good for you. He is not entitled to have nudes of you o n his phone.
It's perfectly fine to dump him for this.
If he thinks that he can manipulate a woman into sending nudes, then he is not deserving of one.
This is his fault guy was mostly thinking of you naked and wasn t thinking about the other things
Never send nudes next time, it is never a good idea
it's just gonna keep happening over and over.
you deserve better
Why, what kind of relationship is based on something as stupid as sending nude pictures of yourself! That should never happen period!! For a start doing something like that is dangerous as taking any photos like that & sending them is a very bad idea for guys & girls to do. Especially if it get put up online & your employer should find it, esecially if you can see your face in the photo.
Obviously the guy is a massive dpuce bag in the first place for expecting something like that from you. In my opinion you should move on & not look back, no guy who is like that should be in any relationship period.
Fights happen, the nudes were simply an example of an already brewing issue, which seems to me that you don't feel like you were getting the attention you deserved. Its possible your man also felt this way and you both distances yourselves from one another, tensions grew with the lack of communication and finally something set you both off. I don't know if you should let the relationship end or not but I think you should try to at least come together and hear each other out. 4 years is a lot of time spent with someone but no where close to the length of life you have yet to live. Take a second and weigh your options, what do you want and how will you get it, there is rarely only a single solution to a problem.
Sounds like you've had enough of being unloved and used. You can do better.
youve done nothing wrong.
Pretty silly reason to break up, don't you think?
Gooood for you!! He put up quite a hissy fit. That attitude is definitely not worth your time. He can't use the "You don't love me then?" card when he pleases to get what he wants.
Good he a manipulator the minute he said you don't love me because you won't do this just show his true nature.
He's being a jerk.
Leave his ass
do what you gotta do. no girl should flash her naked body to any guy because he wants nudes and chooses to not control his sexual needs. my rule is "if he can't accept no for an answer, my answer is gonna be no every time" (meaning, if he can't accept my life, boundaries, self, etc, im not gonna say yes to him cuz that's like rewarding a child for bad behaviour)
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