Ex boyfriend split broke up with me about 2 months ago. We haven't had much to do with each other over last month. I still miss him so so much, whereas he's carrying life on as normal. I have some of his stuff to hand back and we arranged to meet up somewhere neutral this evening. I have two options, do I go & and give everything back to him so I can move on and no need to see or hear from him again, or leave it until I'm over him then hand stuff over? Thanks :)
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Give back his stuff because if you don't, he could think that you are holding it "hostage" as a way of hanging on to the past.
Yes, you might miss him but realize that he wanted this. You might not understand his actions as to why he is moving on so quickly but you should respect it(just because the guy looks fine doesn't mean he isn't hurt). By doing this, it shows him that you have no hard feelings. There is nothing worse than meeting up with a ex and having her only give you half of your stuff and having her try to met up another time to drop off the rest. I always get the impression that she planned it that way. That's when I tell her to keep it all.
Show him that you are ready to move on and that you accept his decision to break up. it's pretty suprising when you are anticipating that your ex is gonna be a mess because you left her, but then you see her and she is doin just fine without you. Good luck.0