I'm a 25 year old Lieutenant in the Air Force here at Nellis AFB in Las Vegas. My wife (she's 24) and I have been married a little under a year, and its been an OK marriage I guess. We both met in college, I was in AFROTC, and she worked as a student employee for the department. Anyway, the other night we both got into a really huge argument because she accused me of cheating after she found a receipt in my Jeep when she took it to the store from Black Angus for lunch for two that I had forgot to throw away, as well as the fact that she found lipstick on the collar of one of my uniform shirts. I told her all I did was take one of the civilian secretaries from my squadron to lunch, nothing more. There was nothing sexual about it or anything. My wife went overboard, she started throwing my clothes out into the parking lot of our apartment complex, then she went and smashed one of my favorite bottles of cologne that she bought me last Christmas. She told me that our marriage was over, and that I'm just a bastard and a dogg for sleeping with the woman. I swear I did not sleep with her, it was a friendly lunch, nothing more. I also called my wife a few names, which I regret now.
Anyway, I decided to go cool off for a few hours while she just locked herself in the bedroom crying over nothing in my opinion. I drove around for a while, and then remembered a couple of my buddies in my squadron told me about this strip club just off the Strip. I decided to check it out to see if it would make me feel a little better. I went in and then I bought a couple of lap dances. I had a lot of alcohol as well there as well, so I was pretty drunk.
Anyway, during one of the lap dances I ended up getting an erection. I had these Levi's jeans on and the pressure of it pushing on them was just too much to handle and I ended up blowing my load. My boxers were soaked. I was thinking about staying a little longer, but I was feeling a little sick from all the alcohol I drank. I was going to drive back home, but then I couldn't even walk straight, so I just got a cab home and left my Jeep there.
I got home and my wife was waiting up for me, I guess she was worried. She wanted to talk to me, but I just told her I wanted to get undressed and go to sleep because I had such a headache from drinking so much. She seemed pretty upset, and as I was getting into bed, she noticed my boxers and the come stains on the front of them. She accused me going to see the woman from work I took out to lunch. I told her straight out I didn't, and that I wasn't in the mood to argue again and just to shut her up, told her straight out that I went to a strip club instead, and she pretty much started slapping me and pounding into me, saying I was a a cheating bastard or something, & going to the strip club was even worse. She's gone to her Mom's in Denver now, and won't speak to me. Every time I call, her Mom answers and won't put me on to my wife. Am I really a bad person because of this?
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well she over reacted...but you going to "cool off" at the strip club and getting drunk after your wife got so upset about it. I think you were trying to stick it to her. I mean, that is pretty d*** to throw money away on getting wasted and strippers when really you could have cooled off and had a drink or two and then went back with a level head. I really think you wanted to show her you were the man, and it bit you in the ass. Now she seems a bit irrational too, but hey, if my husband ran off when we had a bad fight to get wasted with naked women I would be too.2