OK so I don't really know where to start. My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me last night this is what he said to me first.
So I decided that we need a break up and not talk for awhile. I just need time for my self and not have to worry about anything else including me getting drunk and/or worried about something happening. I'm just tired of this and I really don't want to be in a relationship with you anymore. That's all"
then I said things to him and his response
"no I don't want to talk in person. I'm sick of this sh*t. Just leave me alone. You got a job, Ur going back to school, don't mess it up. I want to have fun with no problems or drama. So I'm done. Don't talk to me or show up at my house. We're done. Bye "
I then tried to respond again to ask things and see if he would talk to me, but I did not get another response. I don't get it like what did I do wrong. We did have a few things going on and we used to see each other every day and it was alt because he had a lot to do school,work etc and seeing each other every day was just too much for us. So its became like one or 2 days a week. But yet I don't get his reason for doing this. I treated him so great gave him the world even more.surprised him with things, baseball games,cooked dinner, random things all the time. How can someone do this to someone so good? Right now he is down at work for the weekend and just the way he was saying those things sounded like he was mad at me for something but I did nothing wrong. I was thinking he was drunk and going to give him a few days to see what's up. I love the kid to death and would love for this to someday to work out between us but that's not for me to decide. He is down at work for the weekend right now, but when he gets home do you think he will miss me? Miss sleeping next to meat night all the things we did. He has so many things in his room that are from us or me pictures,clothes,things I bought him etc.i just don't know what to do because I want to be with him so bad and I am heartbroken right now. Could he not want to be with me because he wants to explore everything? His 22 and in party mode I guess you can say I party but not like him. Could he want that or be like that? I'm just so lost and need help. Thinking if I give him a few days he might actually talk to me or something. Usually when his mad at me I leave him alone and like I said a day or 2 and he contacts me first and things are better. But this time I don't know like I had asked if I can get my stuff and asked him all these questions but I had gotten no response just a leave me alone. So I just not sure what to do and just hope maybe now,maybe one day,or maybe never again we can be together once everything is straightened out. How could someone do something to someone that treats them so great like I did?
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Hello, I am in the same situation as you are. College changes people, but it also made us realize what is really important in our lives. When guys enter college and needs to focus on what he needs to do (academics, jobs, etc), they will automatically push the thing that he feels is using up the most of his time, you (the girlfriend). There has been many instances where the guy will finally realize that he has made a mistake, but it is not something you can control. The best thing I can tell you to do right now is to let go and stay out of his life so he will realize how life will be without you. Sure, he might find someone else, but if you really are as important to him as he is to you, he will find himself to start comparing his new girlfriend and you. Most of the time, guys will settle down when he sees that the partying is going no where. Guys need to have something solid and stable to hang on to. They are very fickle and confused human beings, one day they will like you and one day they will feel that you are the reason for him not having fun. But that will all pass once college mode ends. It might take a few months or even a year (my friend realizes this after 1.5 years). Just hang on there and do things that you like to do. Avoid him if possible and DO NOT beg him back. Begging will make you seem helpless and desperate. I hope this helps. Moving on is possible.0
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