He wants to go with his guy friends but I don't know if its a
good idea. I'm worried about him talking to other girls and
cheating on me. I trust him, but I don't know what he might do
if he's drunk. We've been dating about a year and a half. He cheated
on me once two months in our relationship and told me a few months later. But it was with a girl he was best friends with and knew well. He says it was before he started loving me. I don't know
what to do. He wants time alone with his guy friends. Should he go?
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if you're worried he's going to cheat on you, then you don't trust him. if you trusted him you'd easily without a doubt say, "sure I'll see you when you get back." I understand, drunk girls are trouble because they all just use it as an excuse to be a slut but, you have to remember, it takes two to tango. I know that's easier to hear than it is to believe but it's true. it's hard to get back trust after he's cheated so it's understandable but if you're worried about him cheating then you don't COMPLETELY trust him yet. i, personally, think this'll be good. you can't watch him forever, and I mean that in the nicest way possible. if he plans on cheating or wants to, he'll do it no matter what. his c0ck can't fall into some chicks pussy. it just doesn't happen that way. I think that by him going out with his guys and getting hammered being around drunk girls will be the ultimate test honestly. my ENTIRE family has ALWAYS said, "get someone drunk because their true personality comes out when their drunk" so him getting drunk around girls when you're not there could be a good thing. if you don't let him go, not only will he be p*ssed and really hurt, his friends will start to look at you differently too. you'll be the heartless, cold, bitchy, controlling girlfriend who doesn't let her boyfriend do anything or go anywhere and that'll only make him look bad. good luck:)0