This is a long story. I have been married about 5 months now. My husband suddenly became more interested in my pervious partners. I told him originally it was 12, but then I said 6. He said he had been with 10 people. Then upon more question asking I have been with 7 men. He told me he's only been with 5 women. And As time went on through this conversation he's been calling me a whore, slut, stupid bitch. For lying to him. Now he says he can't be with someone that has been with more people then he has. He says that this is why he can't respect women, and this is why he wants to leave me. He said the only way he'd let me stay is if he gets to sleep with 5-6 other women. He says he hopes he falls in love with someone else and that I "finally" leave him. I told him the whole truth of everything, and I am glad for that. I shouldn't have lied, I know that. But what should I do in this situation now? I'm 24, he's 20. Is my number too high?
Most Helpful Guy
It's unclear, how many men have you been with? If it's just the difference of two, then he's being ridiculous about your number being higher. Women having a higher number is a problem for many guys. Yes, you should have told him the truth in the first place, but that does not seem to be the real problem here. Does he really expect you to let him be with a bunch of women, when he says he hopes to fall in love with one? Do you have a sense for how much of this is histrionics, and how much is what he really thinks?0
Most Helpful Girl
It doesn’t matter what your body count is your husband sounds a tad like a narcissist. Big red flag, leave while you can.0