Most Helpful Guy
It's unclear, how many men have you been with? If it's just the difference of two, then he's being ridiculous about your number being higher. Women having a higher number is a problem for many guys. Yes, you should have told him the truth in the first place, but that does not seem to be the real problem here. Does he really expect you to let him be with a bunch of women, when he says he hopes to fall in love with one? Do you have a sense for how much of this is histrionics, and how much is what he really thinks?
Most Helpful Girl
It doesn’t matter what your body count is your husband sounds a tad like a narcissist. Big red flag, leave while you can.