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Society is telling you to feel guilty? No no no, your significant other is the one hurt by your actions that should make you feel guilty. What's this have anything to do with "society?". If you talked to your boyfriend about this, and he's okay with you having sex with other men while in a relationship with him, then that's obviously fine it's yours and his choice then. But if he is hurt by your actions it shouldn't matter how -you- feel on it, the person you love is being crushed by what you are doing, that alone should either make you stop, or never do it in the first place. I'll be honest, I'd be very hurt if my girlfriend cheated on me, and if she said she loved me, I'd call her a liar and show her the door. If she really loved me, she wouldn't have had the ability to hurt me in such a way, thus I would not believe her.
"What they don't know won't hurt them" only works until they find out, then it turns around and becomes more hurtful you are keeping things secretive, which violates a big need in many people's relationships, trust.
Again, I only agree with you if your relationship is open to these things, both people know and accept what the other is doing.3THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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