The thing is... after we got intimate, I made the mistake about asking him "where we were going". He answered with a response that I could have handled, "I'm not looking for any commitment right now"... BUT, he said that and then continued to flirt with me and make me think that he wanted more than friendship.
Eventually, I made a fool out of myself. I made myself look weak! Now, he still wants to be friends, but he doesn't seem to want to talk to me as much. Maybe I scared him a bit? Maybe he just doesn't respect me?
All I know is... I need to be back in control of this. At one point, I seriously felt like I ALMOST had him. But then I ruined it.
So, after all I've done, how can I make this guy see me as the person he saw me as a few months ago, before all of this nonsense happened?
I do NOT care if I ever get into a relationship with this man... it would be nice, yes; but my MAIN GOAL right now is to make him desire me again! So, how can I do this?