Sorry it's long, but bare with me.
My ex boyfriend and I broke up a month ago. He still wanted to be friends and I told him that I needed some time to figure things out. I was and am still heart broken. Two days later he messaged me and told me he loves me and the he is in pieces. Then I said "what do you want me to say? You wanted this. You know I love you." Then he said he was sorry and he acted on emotions and signed off. I haven't heard from him so I text him to see how he was and how he felt. He said that "he missed me, but that this (the break-up) is necessary. UMMM WTF?
Then I had some of his things and called him and we got in a fight about the break up and how I didn't understand it. He told me he loves me again. I told him I couldn't handle being friends and that it would be torture to talk to him and act like that we were never in love.
I said some things that were a little harsh, but true. The next day I heard from a mutual friend that his mother was very ill. I felt bad for the things I said I tried to apologize the next day and he said that he understood, but was very cold to me. Like he was straight out rude. I told him that if he ever needed me to talk I was here. That I love and care about him. He said that we couldn't go from being in love to friends overnight...UMMMM AGAIN WTF?
Then he quickly made an excuse to hurry and get off the phone with me. Later he text that he was sorry to hang up so quick and than he loves me too. I just don't get it? It's been a week now with no contact and I plan to not contact him if I can. I love him, but he is so up and down. Will he ever realize what he had? I was a damn good g/f. We dated for almost a year.
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Whoaaaa no wonder your confused, he is giving completely mixed signals I suggest really no contact for a month don't reply to his texts etc no matter what he says unless its 'I've made a terrible mistake please take me back' .
I know how you feel the night my girl dumped me she tried to kiss me like WTF ! Then that night she texted saying I hope you know I love you again WTF ! I said the same as you I can't be your friend cause I love you and she just went crazy calling me selfish and every name under the sun ...0
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