How much contact should you have with an ex? Would you say that if you spoke online 3 or four times a week and maybe the odd telephone conversation over the weekend was normal. I like speaking to my ex because I'm not over him but I was just wondering whether there was any possibility he still liked me. He started contacted me more out of the blue. He rang me one lunch time and the next day twice in a day. It seemed like he was making excuses to speak to me.
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How much you talk to your ex really depends on what you are trying to do.
1. If you are trying to get back together, and the other person may want to as well, then you probably will be talking with your ex.
2. If you are trying to move on, its best to not be in touch at all so that you can find closure, focus your energy on the other people and things going on in your life, etc. Then, down the road, you may reconnect (say over the phone every so often) because you once cared for the other person and you are interested in how they are doing.
In your situation, he is looking for excuses to talk to you. The only question is: do you want to get back together? Once you know that, then you'll know what to do.
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