Hey guys and gals.
We have been broken up for over a month now. I have not been making first contact but she has maintained contact with emails ect. she did the dirty on me and I broke it off with her as she was hurting me so bad with the lies and weird stuff happening behind my back. I know I should just leave it and move on but I still have feelings for her,and will do for a while. I really want to mend things with her or just to hear her say she is sorry for what she did.. there must have been a reason she wants to have lunch? or is she just feeling sorry for what she did to me. does she want her cake and to eat it too..please tell me what she is playing at? I know she is dating already.
if you want to know the full story please read my first question.
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Honestly, if I were you, I would cut-off contact and move on. I know I do not know her personally, but you were engaged and have only been broken up a month and she is already dating? I am 30 and I have had 3 serious relationships(including my current relationship) it took me at least 6 months to start casual dating and at least 1 1/2 years to even think serious relationship again. I need time to myself after a relationship ends. It sounds like she wants to have the best of both worlds. She wants you when it suits her and on the flipside freedom to date whomever she wants. Just because you love someone, doesn't make them right for you. She seems to be very self involved and I think she is stringing you a long. Who cares if she wants to have lunch, tell her no! Break-ups are hard and sometimes you never fully get over that person, but you have to ask yourself, what you are willing to put up with. Do you want to constantly worry about if she is being faithful? The more you talk to her, the harder it will be to get over her. I think you deserve to be treated with respect and not have your fiancee lie and "do the dirty" behind your back. Anyway, that is just my opinion. I hope it helped a little and good luck!0