my boyfriend and I have split up and had some pretty horrid arguments the past few days...he see's it as tho I'm leaving him (cause I don't love him) when in actual fact its not that I don't love him because I do a lot..i even moved from UK to Australia to be with him.
i warned him 6 weeks ago how unhappy I was living in this town, that I couldn't work doing what I do. that I didn't see this as somewhere we can make a living. he suggested we move to his home city..he found us a place to stay and was looking into work, then when I asked him last 2 weeks ago about it he changed his mind and said he wanted to stay here till Xmas.
i told him that I couldn't do that and I'm so unhappy here that I would be back in UK by Xmas..i said I wanted to move and he could think if he wanted to come with me. I have a job offer now in the city he suggested we move to so I'm going to go on my own. he chose to stay here over coming with me and now things have gotten so ugly.
he is furious that I am leaving him with rent to pay and yesterday made me leave the house. I am no in a hotel and paying for it with the money I was gonna leave him for 1 month rent.
i leave on Mon and I don't know if I should call him say I love him and don't want to part like this..arguing like this is not in my nature and doesn't sit right with me to leave knowing I've hurt him..do you think I should call him or leave it and see if he calls me(then I can say what I want to make this sit right)
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Send him an email, or letter. Its easier to make sure you say everything you want when you write it, also if you call you may fight and be unable to say everything you want. I'm an honest believer in that you should try and say everything you can, before giving up and moving on. The last thing you want are regrets of things you should have said or done. Or at least give you and him closure and let him know the truth. Tell him the exact reason everything happened so he can understand that it could have been different. But yea, its a good idea and a good way to get your feelings off your chest. Good luck0