So about a week ago I sent my (boyfriend?) A break up message on Snapchat and I then unfriended him from Snapchat. About a day or two later he messaged me upset about it. And the next day he told me why he was upset. I didn't tell him that I wanted to break up nor try and be talk to him about how I was feeling because I'm scared of what reactions people have to what I say. It's been about a week now and I lost a friend because I was teasing her about liking a boy I know she doesn't like. And during those days I was starting to miss my boyfriend (ex, idk). The reason why I wanted to break up was because my relationship with him was toxic plus when he gets busy we don't talk for weeks and I don't get an explanation of why. I had felt heartbroken when he had messaged me. I don't know what to do. Any advice?
Most Helpful Guy
You felt heartbroken because your sense of empathy. You didn't tell him before and you knew, consciously or subconsciously, that it would blindside him when you did it via Snapchat. So when you were confronted with the repercussions of that, you felt bad for him. That combined with the fact that it's easier to go back to a broken relationship than to try to find a new one and build from scratch makes it seem really enticing. But if you decided that it was better to move on, stick to that decision. Be responsible for your actions, and if you don't like the way your actions make you feel, reflect on why that is.0
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Most Helpful Girl
Don't interact with him. Find new friends and meet new people.
If the relationship was toxic, u going back to him will do u no good. After several months u will be break up again and that's a crazy waste of emotions.. And time0