Most Helpful Guy
The no contact thing is good to do as it really gives you both time to assess the situation and see how it feels to no longer be together. However I would suggest discussing/agreeing it first.
About the are you ok, it could be one of two things, he either doesn't care very much OR he's respecting your space and allowing you to not respond. Calling you might be in his mind a step too far which might push you away.
I can only say so based on my personality that if someone doesn't communicate back to me, I try a couple of times times and then I sit back and wait, not at all because I don't care but because I don't want to be a nuisance and maybe it's not the right time for them to reply. I'm not saying that what I do is right and I'd even say it's sometimes wrong, but it's what I do...
.. Ultimately I think it all comes down to communication, being on the same page is the most important thing and that can only be achieved by talking.
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Most Helpful Girl
Explain to him what you're doing, it's not fair on him if you've both agreed to keep in contact to then suddenly go against that. Just say you've been thinking and have decided to do the no contact rule to reflect on a few things. He'll then text back blah blah but then you can start ignoring him. Otherwise he's just going to be continually messaging you, not giving you a chance to think or experience life without him0