We were having a conversation over the phone one night.
It was all fun and games until she started insulting me, and calling me boring? Just beforehand, I was asking how her day went and what's new. She said she had an exam and that it went pretty well. She then went with her colleagues (two guys, one girl) to have a coffee. I asked how it went? She said "better than with you". I was then dumbstruck... I fumbled over my words as she continued. She started making me jealous by saying that the colleague started flirting with her and that she didn't reject him. I asked what are you doing?
That's considered cheating. I got mad and said that's not fair. I wouldn't do that to you. She then said yeah well you are kinda boring these past 2-3 weeks. I asked what's the deal? Are you losing your feelings for me or are you just stressed out? She was like no, you're just boring and stupid. Just all of a sudden those words were directed at me.(by the way this exact same girl would go ballistic when I go out with friends or a guy and girl).
She then continues to belittle me. I fire back by saying "you think you can do whatever you want but I can't"? She says "Yes, I can do whatever I want and you can't"That pushed my buttons as I said "I'm not your slave". She says "Oh yes, yes you are"I said you are being very immature and irrational right now. Stop being so toxic. After I uttered those words she hung up and blocked me on every social media.
Sorry for this long-winded explanation, its my first time writing such a thing, so please understand.(English is not my native language by the way). So what do you guys suggest? I felt very hurt after that call and haven't contacted her ever since.
Most Helpful Girl
Long distance relationships rely on trust the most. It seems like she doesn’t want to be with you anymore because she’s losing interest and is trying to start petty arguments just to leave. If she truly loved you she would want to work it out and talk to you about it, and wouldn’t do things to upset you.
Or perhaps she’s being immature and wants to get a reaction out of you to make things “interesting”.
If you love her and have future plans with her, then try working things out. If she’s always acting up unexpectedly and there’s little chance of a happy future together then break up. Good luck man :)
Most Helpful Guy
She's lost interest and using insults to distance you both. Time to move on.