If a girl and a guy break up and the guy is over her in a few months but the girl is practically drinking herself to death still after 8 months and she can't even watch the same shows they watched together music etc but he seems to have no problem doing so... does that mean she loved him more?
Most Helpful Guy
That’s not a testament of love. It just says that one is moving on faster then the other but in reality they’re both stuck. If the guy “moves” on he’s filling a void to be with someone rather then taking alone time to build himself. If the girl chooses to drinking herself away each night then she’s sulking in sadness in a very unhealthy way. Both are dealing with the breakup in very self destructive ways.2
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Most Helpful Girl
8 months isn't quick, honey. It doesn't mean anything, some people just take longer to heal than others.1