Me and my ex have managed to become friends again after dating for about 6 months. We were really good friends before ever dating. He's the one who broke up with me, not exactly for for sure why. I think things got too serious too fast, just because we already knew each other so well & got along so good because we had already been friends. He claimed to still really like me when we broke up, he just "didn't want things to end badly between us & loose me forever".
But yeah, its been about 2 months since the break up, & we've finally got over the awkward stage... and have managed to become friends again.
We work together on campus, and he still comes up with any excuse to touch me. He grabs my butt a lot, and tells me I look really good. A couple weeks ago he even kissed me before he left work.
I don't know what to think really. I thought we were doing good as being friends again, but it seems he isn't over me. We've talked about it before, he just says he does that kind of thing 'just for fun'. But could it be something more?
Just wondering if there are any signs a guy gives when he isn't over someone.
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I think no one can really answer this. My ex broke up with ME. Than she insisted on staying friends. I left her room, and she kept being very nice so that I would not feel hurt and everything was peachy.
Then she started to miss me and tell me how she cried after me so I felt bad because I really started to enjoy being single so I tried to break it off completely because I started to feel as bad as when we were together again.
Than we met on a ski trip we both paied while we were together and she again started to tell me how she finds it weird that she can't take my hand anymore etc. and when I told her that I liked her and that she broke up with me. Later she acted as if I was comming on to her and that it bothered her...
In the end I just told her I was done... she was a sucky friend and just wanted me around to feel good while she made me feel like crap so no regrets for me there. I tried but sometimes you just can't go back to being friends.
If that's all he does it's OK. Just make sure he will be alright when he sees you with other guys and that he understands it's just you moving on and not you trying to make him jealous.0