Most Helpful Guy
Yes and no. A particular ex I loved very deeply. And when we parted it was like I lost myself too. I lost a huge part of my identity because we were that close.
Logically, I know its done. I know we didn't work out for many reasons and in retrospect we couldn't ever have worked out, the break was inevitable one way or another. But its like when someone close to you dies, and they just leave this gap in your life. Even if after a while, life goes on and you've moved forward. You've cut out reminders from them in your life and you're going on your way. Sometimes, some days you wake up and its heavy, you reminisc, something triggers memories and they just come back to you.
So yeah sometimes I do miss her. But I don't think I actually want her in my life ever again. Our relationship ended and it was for a reason. So I wouldn't wish for it back in that sense.
So its a yes and a no. I guess sometimes part of me would like the comfort of those moments, the happiness I felt in them, the love I felt for the her etc... but would I want her person back in my life, probably not, to be in a relationship with her again, also probably not.
I dont believe anyone truly ever forgets the people they have loved in their live. If you loved them, you gave a part of you away. You took and gave to the people who have come and gone in your life. And I think it's probably normal to miss some of them on occasion, even if it doesn't go any deeper than that.
Most Helpful Girl
I have never wished that