idk what it is...but cheating is like forbidden fruit and its so tempting. anyone else agree? have you ever been tempted to cheat? did you follow through with it or walk away?
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Oh I have a lot for this one…lol
Well, I haven’t ever actually cheated on a boyfriend, but I've slept with a lot of married men, guys with girlfriends, etc. Even when I try not to pick up guys in relationships, it happens anyway. It also doesn’t help that some guys lie about being married and will take off their rings. I feel like its their responsibility, not mine. I don’t feel bad because if they really cared about their relationships then they wouldn’t be having sex with me. If it isn’t me, for some of them it would just be another girl.
I do think it is kind of hot too, but I’m a bit of a freak. lol The forbidden fruit scenario definitely applies for me. I’ve tried this lately – if I’m talking to a guy and I really want to know if he’s lying about being married, I’ll tell him it turns me on. Sometimes they will confess. It may be shocking for some people, but I love the behind-her-back dirty risk involved. I have had some guys f*** me in their house or apartment where their girlfriends/wives live. It’s like of course we don’t want to get caught, but its that much more fun. I've done it on their beds, on their kitchen table, in their shower, etc. I can’t say it is something I would readily give up.
If I fell in love again, I would consider it. I would never do to the man I love what a lot of these men I’m sleeping with do to their wives. It would kill me to hurt someone I love in that way. I don’t get how these guys do it. I mean, I’m a freak but these guys get really into the idea of sleeping with me. A couple of them have actually had me meet their friends and coworkers! They think I’m very beautiful, witty, intelligent, hot, etc. and they want to show me off. I love it, I think it’s hot when all the guys know I’m his little slut and he’s proud to show me off. Again, though, I just don’t see how they think some cute thing on the side is worth that risk. Maybe its because a lot of them are well off and they think their wives won't leave them? But even then I’ve had less wealthy guys just want to hang out with me in public and sometimes with their friends…It’s a risk. I always ask them, “Are you sure you want to risk this? Behind closed doors is one thing, but now you're going to let your dirty laundry air in public? Okay…”
Sometimes I feel kind of bad for their wives. Generally they don’t find out but once she did. He told her! They were in a heated argument and I guess he wanted to get one extra jab in. He said something to hint at it like “Well she’s waiting for me so you can take your ass to bed.” Something like that. She was crushed of course. I would have had more respect for her if she didn’t continue to be with him and actually tried to get him to fall back in love with her. She didn’t punish him or anything she just cried asking him to stay whenever she thought he was seeing me. I think that’s so beyond pathetic. Man up woman. Have some pride in yourself – no man would ever treat me that way and have me begging him.0