I still love her more than anything, and I'm struggling with the break-up. She knows I still want to reconcile the relationship, but she continues to say she doesn't see it happening. However, I've tried everything. I made the typical mistakes when the break-up first happened. I tried to beg, plead, and I'm sure I came off pretty desperate.
Then I finally decided to give her space, and since then she hasn't gone more than 4-5 days without trying to text or call me, but yet still continues to say no. It just really throws me off why she acts that way.
I know talking about the relationship doesn't help, and I'm trying not to do that anymore when we talk, but I don't get why she wants to keep so much contact with me, if there really is no hope of a reconciliation
The reason we broke-up was because she didn't feel important enough in the relationship and I feel like ignoring her would only make her feel justified with the break-up, and that's not what I want.
I know I may have to be very patient with this situation and her, but I truly care about her more than anyone else. What's the best way to try and get her back other than being there when she contacts me, and how do I try to not let it eat me up so much, while I'm waiting?