I liked this guy - met online but never in person. We spoke for about seven months. Initially he wanted to fly me out to see him browse I declined, stating I couldn't let him pay for it.
Months went by, the emails lessened. He said it wasn't me, that he was having a hard time securing a job in another country. And depending on that, he wanted to come see me.
Well last month he got the job. But he hadn't brought up the subject about meeting up, nor had I. Finally I asked him what his plans were (this was last Friday). He told me he was going to take a 4 day vacation to another country. I asked him what happened to him coming to see me. He stated that because he hadn't sold his car for as much as he'd hoped, that a lot of plans were compromised.
So I ended it. I sent him a "goodbye" email and deleted him from my life. Now I'm thinking I was too impulsive. I miss him.
Would it be too much for me to send an apologetic email? Guys what do you think? Or should I just leave e everything as is? What would you do?
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I don think it's ever too late. I've been talking to this girl I met online every day for the last six months. We very quickly found out we like each other. But lack of practicality made it very... difficult. There were a lot of ups and downs in my wishful pseudo-relationship. However... I never gave up on her. And lo and behold, I'm now booked on a flight to go see her - tomorrow in fact. We talk all the time, skype, and I even have an opportunity to go to college near her next semester. Talk about a turn-around. If you really like this guy, I would stay in touch. You never know what luck life may throw at you.0
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