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I don't think you should meet with her. You don't need final closure- you've broken up, you've accepted that it's over for good, and you've moved on. What more do you need to "close this chapter"? She's not a part of your life anymore so power is irrelevant- but I understand what you mean, and I can honestly say that the only way to "win" this situation is to be completely disinterested in meeting her. Think of how pointless the conversation will be- maybe she'll say sorry, and what are you going to say? "It's okay"? or "F-ck off, I hate you"? You've made it this far without her apology and you don't need it now, you know you aren't going to become friends and you don't sound like you want to make small talk and catch up on each others' lives. There's literally no reason to meet with her.
She may want to see you because she feels guilty, or because she wants to see if you're still pining after her and boost her own self-esteem. Either way, she has already proven that she can bring pain into your life and I think you should assume that whatever intentions she has are NOT in your best interests.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE