The woman he left me for moved into his flat, but he won't finish our relationship. He threatens to chop my fingers off if I started a relationship with another man, and I don't feel that I can move on and leave our often difficult relationship behind me. I miss him, and think about him every day, mostly because I am on my own so much, and their is no other man in my area that I would want to be intimate with. I keep holding on for him to be the man I need him to be and build a life with me, but realistically figure that you can't make a bad man, be good? Should I continue with this dis-satisfying situation, with a little sex every so often while needing more from him, or accept being alone in the world until perhaps one day that handsome man I keep waiting for steps into my life?
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girl, all I can say is, let it go, get him out of your life and find someone new who can appreciate you much more better than him... the way he threatened you is a strong evidence of him being unreasonably possessive on u, when he himself got another woman... why would you want to still wait for him? he obviously don't appreciate you sweetheart, leave him, find someone new. if you are scared you can lodge a police report against him... I wish you all the best :)0