i recently found out my ex cheated on me. but for some reason I can't stay mad. I instead feel sorry for his poor judgment and insecurity that he could grow balls and tell me. is it bad that I hope the best for him and that for everyone else who has done me wrong.
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Aww, honey. No, don't feel bad for him, that's riddiculous, you sound like an abused woman right now. "I made him do it", and if you stay with him. I don't feel a damn bit sorry for you because he's going to just do it again because you need to grow some girl balls and tell him F this crap, I deserve better than you fool! Do you think he really lives and respects you if he f's around on you?what's the point of a relationship that is not based on love an trust? You are delaying the innevidable, and setting yourself up for further heart break by allowing this disrespect. Kick him to the curb, for real. I'm not trying to be harsh, unlike him, I actually CARE, cause I've been in your place and it will mess you up and years down the road you will deveop deep issues and have to see therapist, even if you don't feel it now, or not that bad, trust me, it will surface and when the right guy comes along you will never trust them and let them in because you are too scarred inside. I am still working on trust issues with people. Leave him, you are going to end up an unhappy drug addict or alchoholic, with children and then you will be stuck with this douchbag! Please, I'm worried for you!0