Most Helpful Girl
Aww you poor thing. Bro, I know you love her but you need to let her go. Go find another girl, I know it's hard and I know how you feel. You will get through this don't worry. I suggest to try not to think of the memories a lot, it will help to leave her, go have fun try not thinking of her and go talk to other girls. I know someday you will find someone who is ten times better than your ex you just need to believe.
Most Helpful Guy
Well, you probably realise that this isn't healthy what you are doing. Whatever the good times were in the past... Hold on too them, but you have to realise that now, it doesn't mean anything at all anymore. It's blunt to say that, but it is how it is.
I think your main problem is that you are holding on to that little bit of hope. She probably realises that and so she knows she can get away with being a bitch.
You can't get over her if you keep in contact with her. It doesn't even matter ir she's nice or a bitch... It's not healthy what you are doing in your case. The book with her is closed. You should not open it again.
I am not sure if you are emotionally strong enough to completely break all contact with her. So I see two options:
- Talk to somebody about it extensively: either family or a friend;
- If you can't/don't want to do that: talk to somebody unbiased professionally. There is no shame in talking to a psychologist. It's better to go talk with one and get rid of your problem, than keep walking with this way longer than you should.
In the end, it's all about acceptance and cutting your losses. I'm not being rude here, but help is needed if you hold on to a unrealistic sprank of hope. You need to realise with her, there is nothing to do anymore. It's finished.