My boyfriend has an ex-girlfriend that he was with for five years before we got together. I don't know if it's because of all the history, or what it is at all, but every time she comes up in conversation it makes me really uncomfortable and it seems to happen all the time. So basically my question is, is it normal to feel weird around your boyfriend's ex, or just uncomfortable to be around anyone your boyfriend has slept with? Cause it's not just the ex-girlfriend.. It mostly is, but even around girls I know he's got sexual history with, I'd just rather not be around them when he's with me.. So am I over-reacting or is this normal?
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Some guys think; its cool if I still hang out with my ex while having a new girlfriend, its not awkward at all because I have a new girlfriend and she's the woman I'm currently dating/in love with/whatever.
I'd say its normal how you feel.
Personally I just keep it to myself if I'm still hanging out with someone I've slept with in the past as at this point its just a friend or acquantance so I'll describe the relationship as such and there's no point bringing it up.