After me and my boyfriend had been dating for 5 months I went to a house party without him. There was a bunch of guys there and only a couple girls who I all knew personally and who knew I had a boyfriend. We were playing drinking games and such, and I am a total lightweight. I ended up getting drunk to the point where I blacked out and puked all over myself. Two guys ended up wiping me off and trying to wake me up. Long story short I ended up giving them handjobs and kissing one. I don't remember anything but my eyes were puffy and red in the morning which happens after a night of crying. So I am assuming I was pretty upset. One of the guys ended up telling me the next day what all happened. I know drinking is not an excuse for anything that happened that night and I have regretted it more then anything in my life. I ended up telling my boyfriend right away and he has never been so angry at me. He was going to break up with me but I did everything in my power to stay with him. I was miserable for weeks. We are still together and have been for a year and a half and it is still one of my biggest regrets and I will never forgive myself. Just looking for other peoples opinion on the situation. Guys would you break up with a girl because of this?
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You seem genuinely remorseful, so that's a maybe. Adults in general have to take personal responsibility for putting themselves in situations like this. If my girlfriend did this once, I would surely rage then forgive her after a long healing process. She would have to show great remorse. Even then I would never forget.
Depends on the girl as well. If she loves to go out drinking with strangers, I would leave her immediately. If she was a saint in the wrong place at the wrong time, again, it would be a long road to recovery.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE