My mom is in to sexting, what should I do?

[Anonymous]

I found out her fake Facebook profile. She must forgot to logout, where she do sexting with many guys. She didn't send nudes to anyone. But she is having very dirty conversations with those guys.

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+1 y

she is married. and for those who are saying its not my business, she is my mom and she is cheating on my dad so it is my business.
if she were single mother i could have understand her.

[Anonymous]

First, I totally understand you care about your parents, but this isn't any of your business. You can't get involved. It's your mom's personal/private life and yes, she shouldn't be doing it, but it's not your call to make. For all you know your dad may even know about it? But if he doesn't, he'll find out eventually on his own not to worry. If she carelessly left it open for you to see for example, what's to stop him from seeing it sometime also that way? ie, she's going to make mistakes and he WILL find out eventually. If you say something to your dad, not only will it start a fight between them probably, but it's going to damage your relationship with your mom (even more than this does already) as well. I personally wouldn't get involved. If I did anything, maybe help your dad "discover" it, but indirectly somehow. Like, if her computer is left open like that again, somehow get your dad to look at it casually.

[Asker]

Sometimes what I needed to hear

[Asker]

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[HunterTheHunted69]

Parents are sexual beings too. After having kids, they can become stressed and sexually repressed. This is your Mom’s way of blowing off some steam. Let her have that. Also, if she’s in her 40’s, that’s when women typically get a higher sex drive. Let her have it.

[sunshine97_]

If that was my mom I would first ask why she was doing rhis and see if there's any solutions for her to stop cheating on your dad.
If it fails, tell your dad. He doesn't deserve to be cheated on.

[Anonymous]

That’s gross well what do you expect? We live in world where technology is dominating our lives. It was bound to happen. This is a live and learn kind of thing.

[Wollu]

So what? This is standard for women. They can't be open with or about their sexuality. They are constantly in panic to loose their reputation (which they don't have anyway) or to be shamed. The only way for them to live their ideas is by doing it in their "safe space". If you take this away from her, she might become a politician, feminist activist or social justice warrior. You wan't to destroy her?

[Ayer93]

If your mom is single, just realize that she is human as well with desires. Especially if it's just sexting... that's not a big deal. It shows she isn't willing to bring just any guy into her life and make her daughter feel uncomfortable. However, if she is still married, that is a different story entirely. She would be potentially tearing a marriage apart.

[Tuomaaash]

Why would you read her convos :D Your mom is a woman and it´s normal for women to do that. None of your business. Would you like you mom to meddle with your sexting? :D

[Jan_Classic]

You should copy somewhere all the sexts and learn, young padawan!

[Intraluminal]

You should forget about it and mind your own business in the future.

[Asker]

Isn't cheating?

[Intraluminal]

I'm sorry. I misunderstood. Your mother is still involved with your father. That makes it much more complicated.

You may want to tell your father because your mother is cheating or about to cheat on him. That may be true, but it also may not be the case.

The bottom line is, until it becomes obvious what is going on, you should pretend that you don't know about it.

[Eirletherail]

Love her, and accept her life choices, but also let her know how it makes you feel.

[SportsBrah]

Make a fake account and sext with her, after some time tell her its you and tell her if she doesn't stop, you are going to tell daddy.

[ClumsyGuy]

I'm sorry to hear this... You must tell your dad about this because he deserves to know. That's the right thing to do irrespective of consequences.

[RohitLakra]

You should not tell her that you know it and think of it as a bad dream. She won't listen to you even if you try to help her

[smex77]

It's none of your business. Just pretend you did not see it.

[Djakob]

She has a right to do whatever she wants. Would you be fine if i or anyone else interfered in your sexual activities?

[Ayer93]

She's her mom. That's a completely different story to a friend. Her mom should not be indulging in her desires so easily and potentially destroying a marriage and family... unless she is a single mom. In that case the daughter should understand she has needs as well.

[Djakob]

We don't know about the sexual relationship with her mom and dad either. And a married women would never do this unless she doesn't get it from her husband. And I'm talking about most women. There will be some exceptions tho.

[MostlySquishy]

Respect her privacy. It's not really your business, shrug it off and let it be.

[scooogy]

Finally a version of sexting which I agree to. That can't be dangerous though, it's just texts.

[Eirletherail]

I'd like to disagree. It does have enormous addictive potential.

[Asker]

@Eirletherail means

[Eirletherail]

If she is addicted to pleasure, there won't be any easy fix, and she'll need all the support she can get. Especially from her husband.

[Asker]

@Eirletherail you mean my dad should support this?

[Eirletherail]

Not at all. I mean if she likely has feelings of guilt that will build until they tear her or their marriage apart. The only way to prevent that is to get her off this addiction. Getting her off the addiction will require your father's patience and support.

[Asker]

ok thanks

[Eirletherail]

It won't be easy, but I wish you the best of luck.

[rajveer120391]

Try to find out why she is doing all this? Is she not happy with ur dad?

[abc3643]

Why is this a problem?

[AquaBoo]

Because she's married.

[abc3643]

@AquaBoo You should have stated that in your question.

Do this:
1. Make a fake profile FB account as a man.
2. Message mom's fake FB account. Or comment. Whatever. The point is to start a dialog so she eventually starts sexting with you on your fake male account.
3. When you are busy being hot and heavy with Mom, suddenly type this:
"Mom, it's (your name)."

If you can get away with it, add "Dad is here with me."

She will piss in her pants as her stomach falls.

Then add "We need to talk. NOW."

When she asks you how you found out, tell her "That doesn't matter but I can do it again."

The bottom line is to put the fear of God and you into her to stop. At the same time, you need to try to be supportive and understanding as to WHY she is doing this.

Dad does not need to know... yet.

Keep in mind something else, the Old Italian Housewives Proverb :

"It doesn't matter where your husband gets his appetite as long as he eats at home. "

The same applies to wives.

[abc3643]

So, maybe cut her some slack but she needs to know that you know.

[AquaBoo]

It's not my question..

[AquaBoo]

And no that does not apply to wives. Sei uno stupido idiota.

[abc3643]

@AquaBoo It most certainly applies to wives. It applies to all humans with sexual needs.

How did you know @asker's mother was married? Or did you just assume that?

[AquaBoo]

It's called asking.

[abc3643]

@AquaBoo Oh so you asked her... Why did you reply to my question to @asker and not let @asker answer. After all, that IS what I was doing - asking - just like you did. Isn't it @asker's responsibility to answer my question and not yours?

[AquaBoo]

Because she didn't and I wanted to know for myself. And since I am free to ask what I want, I did. To which dost thou hast an issue.

[abc3643]

@AquaBoo I have no problem with you asking her which I see you did, but you asked a very specific question, "Is she married?". I suspected she was but I asked the more general question "Why is this a problem?" in case there was some other reason because @asker did not mention her mother was married which she should have for clarity. For all I knew, there could have been other issues involved, thus the generalized question. Good diagnostic interrogation involves not assuming but asking broad questions first then "drilling down to specifics".

[AquaBoo]

I didn't need to investigate. I'm not Harlow Doyle. I asked a clarifying question to help me discern my next choice of words. Why are you questioning my question? Why does it bother you so much?

[abc3643]

@AquaBoo I'm not questioning your question at all.

[neesa]

Tell your mum you know

[1derfulguy]

Let her have her fun, I guess.

[1derfulguy]

After reading your update, I guess you could confront her if you want to get involved. It is better and braver to take your beef to whoever you have beef with, rather than e. g. ratting her out to your dad, which would be a bit cowardly and sneaky. So yeah, maybe tell her you disapprove.

[olderbudweiser]

she's having fun... leave her alone

[panders]

just leave it and mind your own business

[Tesius]

So how can i get in to contact with her 😂😂😂😂