My boyfriend constantly accuses me of cheating just because I'm in college and he's still in high school. I have told him MANY times that I do not cheat because I think cheating is wrong. He still accuses me. For instance, I go to the library or to Walmart and he thinks of off with some guy. However all the signs point to him cheating. He talks to girls that I ask him not to, girls call & text during our time and he says their gay and he has reasons for everything he does. I have confronted him many times and he assures me that he is not doing anything and that he wants to spend his life with me. We have been together for 15 months.I feel like he's accusing me because he's the one doing it. Is he cheating?
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Their is a possibility that he could be cheating or is going to cheat. He may feel guilty that he is talking to other girls or seeing other girls and is afraid that you are doing the same behind his back. Why is he so paranoid? Has he been cheated on before? If he has been cheated on before he may just have problems trusting. It takes time to heal from being hurt so if he has a past of girlfriends cheating just show him that your faithful. With time he will see that you are faithful. To see if he is cheating just be aware of his behavior. Has he been dressing differently, changing his schedules, acting weird when his phone goes off around you? if he silences his phone and doesn't look at it while he is with you or is acting strange then he is probably cheating or hiding something from you. Trust your intuition. A girls intuition is almost always right. Good luck!0