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This seems to be a highly co-dependent relationship to me. Love? Are you sure you know what you mean by that? I think it's the inconvenience that you hate. You love this relationship as it is, because you and him are feeding each other on each others bad feelings. You need this and he needs it as well. This is my remote brief opinion about it. If it's not too toxic, you might be able to sustain it on a moderate level. But I think it will be annoying at some point in time and a break up is inevitable. And be aware that your child will be a victim of this.