I despretely want to break up after 20 years, he refuses to leave, how can I make him see its over between us?
What Guys Said 6
If your the one who wants to break up, why is he the one who has to leave?1
That's not something that will be done and over, twenty years... he's probably very unstable and emotionally distraught after hearing the news from you. The best way to really show that it's over is to get away, don't be close to him. Hopefully the guy deserved it because if I was in the same shoes after 20 years I'd be destroyed.1
I think it's very bad decisions0
Just tell him, you need to a have a big talk with him. Sorry to hear about this.0
What Girls Said 1
I'm completely assuming here but where you're living together at the minute, you own it? You need to both sit down and talk about it and you need to hear each other out. 20 years is a very long time to just turn and say to go so has it been brewing for a while or is this a recent thing? Either way, you need to be clear with him and listen to his side of it too. If you've simply just fallen out of love for what ever reason, he needs to know why; it's the least you both deserve.1
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