I dont need a man to survive
And I don't need a woman to survive, yet I have a wife, 2 daughters and Mummy-in-law around. And they all seem to no need in me.
Ok are you happy with your life, your wife, your daughter and your mom in law? In my case i am not happy with the father of my kids! I deserve to be happy whether its with someone else or alone! Even though i have been with him for 20 years i have always provided and done for myself ! I am a strong independent woman!
Ok, go, arrange your kids to Harvard or Oxford, madame strong woman
So me being without him will prevent my kids from even possibly making it to a fancy college... i think if i stay in a toxic relationship will and could cause damage to my kids mentally and/or emotionally... besides whatever educational avenue my kids take ill always be proud of them and will always back them 100%
How about a 50000$ a year education avenue? Support it.
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After our 3rd kid things changed he began being distant would always put me down telling me no man would ever want me if i left him, he was my first everything kid #4, always push me away, said he wanted alone time, we only had sex when he wanted went hto work came home and would deny me any affection, sex became stale and bad, after #4 baby was born he would demand i find a job came home said i had no choice that there
was a open interviews on site hiring at fast food joint down the road... said they hiring all positions that i sbould apply for management... lol so i went i didn't ask but shocking i got the management position... suddenly im being accused of cheating on him day in day out like clock work... in all honesty i had never in
18 years been disloyal... after a while he accused me of sleeping with a vo worker and he made a scene at my job cops showed up i was
mortified... i dk what happened 3 days later something in me just said fuck it and i slept with said co worker that was the first time ever with another man... now we fast
forward a bit we become homeless kids go live with my sister... and thing for us became worse... i started to stray i left him and stayed with a friend for a few weeks he lost it i told him over i was in need of a major life
change... i worked everyday utilizing every resourse there was to get help getting housing... he lost his job and depended on me to carry him... once i was approved for housing i felt guilty knowing yhe struggle of being homeless so i told him we
will try for 3 months to work it out he swore he would change... as of yet nothing still talks down to me , tells me he dares me to find another man, no man gonna want me and my flabby ass, men will just use me
then dump me, always trying to make me feel 10x smaller, but i now know better than that and i deserve better... not saying me cheating was ok but i dont wanna have this bullshit back n forth drama everyday... i want romance, i want sillyness, i want honesty and trust, am i wrong
You are with a covert narcissist dear. It’s him or nobody. As long as you was admiring him, all was good. But you see other people now in a good position. He isn’t te center of your life anymore. Is my opinion rubbish? Or does it hit the nail?
I agree completely but it dont help when my family says your never gonna leave him you two are Destin for each other or how afe you just gonna start all over, what about the kids... they get mad when they see how unhappy i am but are 2 faced and tell him everything i confide in them
He swears to ruin me and make sure i never see my kids... he thinks because he's not physically abusive i should be thanking my lucky stars