Why does my ex boyfriend keep messaging me for no reason?

So we broke up a month ago
He wants to remain friends
Recently he has been contacting me often
He called me the other day just to talk and see how I am and everything
Most of the time he just messages me about random things like what happened during the day or talking about his plans, etc
He contacts me every week
he's always the one initiating


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Most Helpful Guy

  • you're his comfort zone. As well as he might be yours. Its hard to let go.

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    • So it means that he lost romantic feelings for me?

    • Not necessarily. He could very much still love you. And texting you might be his way of trying to let go but keep you in his life. Or maybe he's texting hoping that love will blossom again. I've been there

Most Helpful Girl

  • Well you just said he wants to remain friends shouldn't that explain why he contacts you? Usually friends contact each other. If you think it's weird maybe you should make it clear that you don't want to be friends with an ex.

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    • Exactly!

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    • He contacts me more than my best friend lol isn't that weird?

    • Why did you guys breakup?

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What Guys Said 4

  • Sounds like he's being a friend. How strange.

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  • Maybe he realised that you were the one for him.

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  • It must be love. Love. Love.

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  • Omg call the police a man is caring about a woman

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What Girls Said 2

  • This happened to me before it means he still has feelings for you and wants to get back with you but taking it slow. Or it could mean he wants to be friends. If you want to get back with him make sure that you healed from the break up and make some time and space for yourself.

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  • He either wants you back or wants to make sure you haven’t moved on with someone else. Why’d you break up?

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