He says he is not the family type and that he feels trapped and controlled!
When he was fine about the pregnancy in the beginning and was crazy about me...
Is it just fear of becoming a dad or is he just bored and need to live his life..a single life?
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I wanna tell you, that truly you need to not focus on why he left ? This only puts stress on you and your unborn baby. I am saying this for I am 7 months pregnant got dumped in July after he was excited and wanted a family. Then he up and vanished, changed his number , email, and now I have no idea if he wants part in his sons life. ? Yet I underwent the difficulties of dealing with him leaving. Till I realized that I am stronger, more mature and more responsible then he will ever be. And sometimes letting go is hard, doing it alone is difficult. Yet, why be with a man that can Do this to your child. You want your child to have stability, and have a loving atmosphere not a man that is unpredictable and not ready for this. You have too stay strong and have faith. A man will only change when he matures and can't be forced to change. So just focus on you and your child. You two are the most important things in this situation. He will regret what he is has done, yet you won't regret nothing. ;)0