I don’t believe he was drunk. It was 6pm on a Saturday, and he has no Friends of his own. All his social life revolves around me and my own friends.
Damn. This guy sounds like a real loser. Probably has the suicide hotline on the childhood bulletin board in his room. Not to get to personal but were you ever intimate with him? If so, my money is on him looking for pity sex.
He was my boyfriend for 1.7 years. Yes, were intimate. I offered him a lot, friends/plans/love, etc. and he cheated on me, then messaged me “hello” 2 days after telling me i was toxic and he wanted nothing to do with me. I asked him the next day why he messaged me and he ignored it. So, now i blocked him everywhere. Except it sucks. He blocked me on Instagram, and I can’t block someone that has me blocked already. So, when he decides to message me through there, I’ll have to block him.
I’m not sure what games he is playing.
I get the feeling he’s realizing he made a huge mistake leaving you. Guys in his position, who have no friends and live with their parents should kiss the ground you walk on. Plus, if you’re attractive which I get the feeling based on his obsession with you, he’s probably realizing that he also just kissed any chance at him getting laid in the next 6 months goodbye. You seem to have it well in hand. However, I’d go one step further and cut your friends off from him. That should deprive him of social oxygen and give him time to work his shit out.
Oh, most certainly. My friends un-friended him on social media, and they dislike him. He had no friends of his own, he only has his family and younger sister. I offered him a lot, and i do believe i am fairly attractive. A lot of guys tried to steal me from my ex. But, I’m as loyal as they come. I believe in karma and i believe in being a kind and decent person. However, my ex hurt me and so i turned very resentful and mean towards him. But, if he’s realizing his mistakes, then i think more than a “hello” would have been offered. Also, when i messaged asking why he messaged me, he did not reply. I believe he is becoming lonely. He probably. Hasn’t gone out in an entire month (since we broke up a month ago). I wasn’t perfect. I got jealous and insecure. But, i brought a lot to the table. I remember i said to him “you did not fight for me. It’s clear you don’t want me anymore. That’s why you cheated and blocked me and left”. He said “it’s not that i don’t want you. I don’t deserve you”
I mean. He cheated on me. He didn’t have a hard time finding girls to sext behind my back and flirt with. So, I’m not sure why he’s so lonely and bored now.
Better question: who’d he cheat with and is she still in the picture?
He met a girl off tinder while we were together. He told me he removed her from his life after i found out he cheated. I’m not 100% if she’s out of his life. I can’t see his Instagram folllowers/contacts/etc.
It would be tinder... I think you’re making all the right moves. What you should do now is resolve to leave him behind and move on. Don’t think about him or go through the list of what if’s. Just forget about him. That being said, if he calls you again you call him back tell him you want nothing to do with him, his shitty life or his prostitute (I’m paraphrasing of course). If he contacts you after that call the cops on him for harassment. I’ve had exe’s like this before, not as pathetic as this guy. But I did have an exe that eventually forced my hand and made me call the cops on her. Do what you can to avoid that type or relationship in the future.
Why think of me if he cheated and left me?
Happens quite frequently. Either he realized that the woman he cheated with wasn't as good as you or she didn't have any use for him. Men usually end up cheating with women who aren't of the same quality as their partner, and since they are cheaters, they aren't exactly the dream guy for the woman they cheated with, either.
He texted me at 7pm on a Saturday, and he still lives with his parents and sister lol.
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