My ex dumped me 3 months ago for no reason. I've been trying to get on with my life. I haven't even contacted him. He was really cruel about it and never apologized. Everyone here seems to hear back from their ex. Why haven't I? I'm a good person who would never cheat. I didn't deserve to be dumped cruelly out of the blue.
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write him an email. tell him everything opposite of what you are feeling. so that means don't mention anything in your question above. you don't care about him hurting u, you don't care about an apology, you don't care about him not saying goodbye.
Your email should just be asking how he's doing (hope he's well etc.), tell him you had time to reflect on things and you agree with the break up. say it was for the best for both of u, say it wouldn't have worked out in the long run so its better to break up. mention that wonderful things have happened in your life since then. so its true what they say, everything happens for a reason. and wish him well and say bye.
short email to the point.
this is the complete opposite of what he is thinking of how you feel. it will shock his system. he will want you back. at which point you PLAY IT COOL. then you decide whether you want closure or to get back with him (on your terms).
i say forget his ass. If a guy is gonna break up with a girl, he owes her an explanation at the very least.