Been trying to fix it for half a year. I've basically been telling him what to do, but it just isn't doing it for me.
My partner won't give me oral, even though I do it for him. Even he admitted it was selfish, but he just won't do it. We've been talking about it for around half a year now and no improvements.
If that's something you really like (and my experience has been that most women do), I'm sure that would be frustrating.Has he given any reasons? Depending on what his reason is, maybe there's something you could do that would make him willing to do it like shave (if you don't already), wash just before he does it, or whatever would eliminate whatever problem he has with it.If nothing works and he just refuses to do it, then I guess the question you have to ask yourself is whether you're willing to give that up in order to have whatever other things you like about the relationship. If you feel like the positive things in the relationship are not enough to overcome the lack of oral sex, then breaking up is certainly an option. If the relationship is otherwise good though I think that's a big risk because it's not always easy finding a good partner. You could end up with someone that's willing to do oral on you but has other significant flaws.
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Already tried fixing it, but nada. Still bad after half a year.
Well if it's been that long and you're that sexually frustrated with no improvement it is time to move on sorry to say
Been giving him suggestions for half a year now, but he isn't doing anything about it.
yeah, its time to move on.