We went out for a few months almost five years ago, did the whole I love you forever yada yada ya.. he's gone away to a university a couple hundred miles away, but always calls me whenever he's in town saying he misses and wants to see me. Every time we meet up we have sex. This has been going on for the past five years. For the past (almost) three years, I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend. I've tried cutting it off with my ex, but I'm really attracted to him and he is very charming. When I tell him I want to stop seeing him he tells me he misses me and gives me what I think is bull, then he gets mad at threatens to tell me boyfriend or show pictures that he supposedly has of me. I say I don't care, but I end up giving in and continue to meeting him. These past couple of times have been hard on me because I feel used. I ask my ex why he never talks to me except when he is gonna come to town and he tells me "you have a boyfriend, I can't call. what do you want me to do? take you out on dates?" I told him yes, and the conversation ended. I spent the night. What's you're opinion? Do you think he is just using me? What should I do?
Ex-boyfriend and I still meeting up to have sex after relationship ended almost 5 years ago? just sex?
What Guys Said 2
So you've been cheating on your boyfriend cause you've been scared about your ex telling your boyfriend you've been cheating on him... oh come now. Break up with your boyfriend, do him that favor, and don't tell him why, he doesn't deserve that pain and you don't deserve him. Cut your ex entirely out of your life and then seriously work on your own issues you have.3
youve been cheating this whole time. I hope you get a flesh eating virus4
What Girls Said 1
is the sex that great? Obviously he really has feeling for you and you for him or you would have stopped because of a new boyfriend. really think about your ture feeling for both guys and see who you care about more.
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