okay,i've been loving this guy since I was in first year high school until now (I'm in 4th yr) I'm always unsure of how he felt about me,he flirts with other girls and not care about me,he once asked if he could court me and I rejected him (I don't know if he got hurt by that XD)So it means that we've never been together.
I don't even know why I've held this feeling for too long.I still love him.But I haven't seen him for like 3 yrs.I tried to contact him but I can't seem to find a way.Can someone explain this to me?What's the best thing I could do?Should I move on or what?
And yeah,I don't know the real reason why I love him even though it makes me suffer.:((
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guys are like that for their maturity, if not the fact that they aren't ready to settle down with one person...you can call that being young
love is mix of emotions that whither away after awhile, unless you know how to keep the fire going on that...a trade secret that takes time and experience to learn and master
rejection builds confidence, but take what you've learned and move on to the next relationship for something better than the last one...there's a small chance that he will come back into your life...if you're looking for signs, then he will have grown up for you and stopped his "old" ways for you...that will be the most obvious sign you need to know for a second chance0