OK, so I've met and/or dated a few girls now who have stayed very close friends with their ex. One girl I dated when I was 22, she was 21, and her ex was 18... and he visited me at her place while she was at work and wanted to be best friends... but then kept telling me over and over how he can tell me what she likes and help me keep her happy and stuff... he must've thought I couldn't see his games...
SO GUYS AND GALS - If their ex is still their best friend, how does it affect your relationship? Stories... comments... can the relationship be trustworthy? What if you have a fight and the first person they talk to about it is their best-friend-ex who it's very easy to be comfortable with and who knows what else...
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All her exes are her "fan club" members. She kept them as friend so she can make them jealous by having new men around. Most of them must be pathetic losers who would never moved on and found another girl. They stay in hope that one day she will be over with you and will be back with them again.
Your Girlfriend is keeping them around also to keep you insecure and jealous and to provide you with what she want with the fear that if you can't give, those losers will grab the chance and provide her.
I think you need to set some boundaries here if you don't like the presence of her exes around her.