Me and my ex boyfriend broke up a week ago! he's a great guy but i have been having doubts about weather we will last, But i feel so bad for him, i dont know if its a permenant breakup the reason is i just need some time to explore and live a little, i still love him but i told him it would be best if we went some time without contact to think about our feelings, i need to think about my future and where its headed. Anyway its been a week and he's been really down, he still messages me but i told him i need space to think, i feel bad because i know he doesn't have family or any real friends, his family kicked him out at 16 and refuse to talk to or contact him because his step dad always resented him and wanted him gone. I feel like i should try and talk to him but i should think about myself first and foremost shouldn't i? He has issues like he's depressed and has some serious abandonment issues? Should i make sure he's okay or should i put me first?