Me and my boyfriend had been in a serious relationship for about a year and a month. I began to get extremely jealous of his close friend and also his ex girlfriend Lisa which caused us to start arguing a lot and in the end he broke up with me because he said he didn't feel the same way about me as he used to. I love this boy with all my heart so I've been trying my best to get him back I even apologized to the girl that caused most of the arguments between us hoping he'd take me back but he made it clear of a start that he only wanted to be friends but as soon as we started to become close again as friends it started to go a little further and now were friends with benefits, he tells me that he feels like he's hurting me by doing this but he can't stop. How do I get him back ? Is there a chance that he still might love me ? I need to know if there is still how for us.
How do I get my ex boyfriend back?
What Guys Said 2
Chemistry dies out like a fire if you don’t stoke it once in awhile.
Humans have needs – both emotional and physical. They need to be caressed, held, hugged, kissed, listened to, flirted with, and desired.
Your relationship routine might have made your ex feel starved for whatever it was they didn’t get anymore – that very stuff that made your stomachs and hearts flutter when you first started dating. If he or she was starving, then chances are you weren’t getting everything out of the pairing that you wanted as well.
What were you lacking in the relationship? What was missing?
Most relationships don’t crumble because of one single issue. When one thing comes in between two people, they usually recognize it and work things out amicably – unless it’s a deal breaker like, “he wants kids and I don’t.”
You might even see the breakup as a result from one of the above issues while your ex would pinpoint something totally different. Maybe you thought it was the fact that you spent no time together, but he thought it was the nagging you did.
If you want to get your ex back, don’t do these things::
- Texting your ex will push him away – fast;
- Calling your ex multiple times a day shows neediness;
- Telling him to get back with you telegraphs insecurity;
- Writing letters to try to make him understand how you feel is
-Phoning his parents and try to convince them to talk
sense into his is a sure way to get ignored;
-Calling the new girl in his life and telling him to leave him
alone will instantly turn him against you
How to get him back?
Maybe this few tips will help you:
- Never look desperate – work on your self, you need to shine if you want to attract him back
- Start seeing other guys. That will wake uh her curiosity and insecurity (is possible that he has already move on!?)
- Go out together, do stuff together, but don’t ask him to get back, just have great time together, let he see how good it was in relationship
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All the best and good luck!
you didn't trust him so it's best you stay separated anyway. I'd even say lose the benefits. If you can't trust someone why bother with them aye?0
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