when we are together I can really feel he cares for me and he loves me but when we are not together anymore he doesn't text/call me unlike before. as if he'll just talk to me if he thinks he wants to. that's why we are having misunderstandings. :(
i didn't want to ask nor nag him because there are times he thinks I'm being childish and he sometimes tell me that I didn't know what the problem was.
i just wonder is it normal? I mean, I can't really read him. I don't know what to think and do. my friends told me to care less but when I care less he thinks that I don't care! :( I tried to break up with him but he got mad and didn't want to.
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You don’t have to worry, because most of guys for some reason, which is in their nature, are very slow to adapt. No matter how many times you tell him (or do) something, he just doesn't seem to get it.
This is why you need patience.
Don't be offended when you don't get exactly the response you would expect from him. He will listen to you if you stand in front of him with an attitude (but don’t act like you’re his mother), and that will work.
Break that believing that men and women are from different planet, and get to know him. Every day you have a chance to find out something new about him. Use that, and you’ll have a better relationship which gets even better as days go by.
And remember, you must focus on how he thinks, instead of how you think. That is a common mistake that girls do when they try to solve some problem with their man. Be aware the signals you are sending to him.
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