my boyfriend and I have been together for 1 month and 2wks. he's the quiet shy type of guy. he's really sweet and caring. he usually texts me just to ask how I am. stuff like that. and he does efforts to show me that he cares but then I've noticed that he cared less. that's what I feel now a days. I think he is insensitive because sometimes when I get mad at him he doesn't know and he thinks I'm childish. he is a foreigner. he told me before that he did not have many gfs before so he didn't know what to do and he is still adjusting because we have different cultures. :( I've asked him before if he was really serious about me he said yes. he wants us to be forever and he even wants to meet my parents he wants to talk to them because he knows they are really strict. he even told me that he wants me to meet his family too. something like that.
when we are together I can really feel he cares for me and he loves me but when we are not together anymore he doesn't text/call me unlike before. as if he'll just talk to me if he thinks he wants to. that's why we are having misunderstandings. :(
i didn't want to ask nor nag him because there are times he thinks I'm being childish and he sometimes tell me that I didn't know what the problem was.
i just wonder is it normal? I mean, I can't really read him. I don't know what to think and do. my friends told me to care less but when I care less he thinks that I don't care! :( I tried to break up with him but he got mad and didn't want to.
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You don’t have to worry, because most of guys for some reason, which is in their nature, are very slow to adapt. No matter how many times you tell him (or do) something, he just doesn't seem to get it.
This is why you need patience.
Don't be offended when you don't get exactly the response you would expect from him. He will listen to you if you stand in front of him with an attitude (but don’t act like you’re his mother), and that will work.
Break that believing that men and women are from different planet, and get to know him. Every day you have a chance to find out something new about him. Use that, and you’ll have a better relationship which gets even better as days go by.
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