under what conditions would you advise me to talk to my ex...he doesn't live near me.. he broke up with me a year ago ..we were together for 4 years.. he put me through a lot... is it OK if I talk to him every now and then or no ?
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I would not advise you to talk to him unless you're forced to choose between talking to him or talking to hungry alligators.
If you two were meant to be friends after the break up, it would happen naturally. You aren't going to gain anything from a friendship from someone who lives far away anyways.0