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Being surrounded by ”candidates” doesn’t help very much if the one you want is not one of the candidates. And I’m a strong believer in the fact that you can’t fuck away your feelings.
@lumos Well, this depends on the girl, some kind of girls surrounded by candidates are distracted enough so they can recover in an easier way than others. Also sometimes because they are heart broken they try a new relationship with the first guy that makes them happy and makes them feel loved. I agree that you can't throw away your feelings, but this kind of things are present for the girl to avoid being thinking on your ex, things that are not present in some cases for guys.
In my experience, very few girls are actually surrounded by guys. This is some sort of myth guys have made up to justify feeling like a victim. Second, it’s not at all surprising to me that you, as a guy, would assume that the best way to get over someone is to ignore and avoid your feelings rather than processing them. Third, if you’re truly heartbroken, no amount of strangers being interested in you will make you feel even a tiny bit better.
I think this depends on where are we located, in my experience is the opposite. Also I don't think that this is some kind of myth guys have made up for what you said, there should be some guys who did this, but not generally. Also, I could be a guy, but this doesn't mean that because I am a guy I would assume that the best way to get over someone is to ignore and avoid my feelings. In my case I process them. And finally, yes, if you are truly heartbroken that's right, but nowadays relationships are not taken in a very serious way, I have seen a lot of girls in that situation and they move on a relationship of 5 years in 1-3 months (Because after that time they are with a new BF). While the guy is still trying to come back with the girl. This doesn't happen with all girls, but I have seen a lot of cases.
This is true !
Are you saying it is like that for all of them?Guys could have people lined up also. Not saying all guys do,
@MysteriousDarkness girls usually. Unless they are super ugly. Guys not so much, it’s rare.
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