If a person refuses to seek mental healthy treatment, is it selfish to want to leave?

My boyfriend of 7 months claims to have mild bipolar. we even went to a psychiatrist with his family in india who confirms this. Now he has been back in the US for two months and when i ask him about he says he "doesn't believe in treatment." He says he has been self-managing for 25 years, and he functions well enough- but some abnormalities leak though. like impulsive spending, lateness, cyclical depression, sprinkles of mania, lack of consistency etc.

Am I selfish for not wanting to "pick up the pieces, if it is something that I feel like he can at least try do with a professional?"
If a person refuses to seek mental healthy treatment, is it selfish to want to leave?
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