You may call me a terrible person if you wish; I probably deserve it.
I just broke up with my girlfriend and it seemed super sudden to her..even though I've been thinking about it for awhile.
We are two very different people and if you've ever taken the Myers-Briggs personality test (Highly recommend it) our two 'types', INFJ/INTJ, are the most incompatible.
Anyway, she was obviously heartbroken...even though we've only been together a month and a half. I didn't feel much until she started crying and then I felt terrible for hurting her like this.
I know my whole heart was not in this relationship and it would be unfair for me to continue, as I told her. However! I also have another woman in mind who seems to me to be perfect in a million ways. I did not mention this girl to her because it just seemed worse to say that..even though she kept saying "if you just want to move on to something else, just say so."
Am I wrong for not telling her I'm interested in another girl?
Most Helpful Girl
no.theres no reason to hurt her. But you definately shouldn't be with her. Your not a bad persona and people move on at different stages. You can't stay with someone to make them happy if your not, because your also holding them back from them meeting that person that is perfect for them.
You weren't with her that long itl hurt for a while but in time she will move on and be happy once again0