Is there anything she can do or say to make you to truly forgive and give her a second chance ?
If so, what it should be ?
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I don't personally believe in second chances for cheaters... I don't suggest it.
But if you're set on being with her again, she has to regain your trust. You both will have to have very painful talks about things that are not very pleasant... one of the main talks you'll need to have is why she did it. Although I'm sure she'll eventually blame it on you, I want you to understand that it is not at all your fault she's weak, but you should take those "criticisms" to heart. Why? because if you do end up with her again, you also have to work to make sure she doesn't ever have a "reason" to cheat. That way, if she does it again you'll know its not about you- its all her.
One thing she can so is be willing. Willing to talk it out, be willing to work for your attention and trust, to hear you out, and to never do it again. There is nothing else SHE can do or say to have you fully forgive her, that's all on you. Do YOU believe her? Do you think you can trust her?
again, I don't suggest getting back together because I know its impossible to ever feel fully secure after that; but the ball is in your court. If there's anything you want to know, nows the time to ask her. Everything is up to you.3
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